Davon, was eine starke Frau ausmacht, hat wohl jede und jeder eine ganz eigene Vorstellung. Für das Wirtschaftsmagazin Forbes, das alljährlich eine Liste der. Übersetzung im Kontext von „starke Frau“ in Deutsch-Russisch von Reverso Context: eine starke Frau. Die starke Frau ist im besten Sinne emanzipiert. Sie ist autonom und hat eine entwickelte Persönlichkeit, sie liebt ihren Beruf, kann ihren Standpunkt vertreten.
Übersetzung für "starke Frau" im RussischAber eine starke Frau gibt sich nicht für billige Tricks her – und das ist auch gut so. So trennen wir die Spreu vom Weizen. Lerneffekt: Männer. Die starke Frau ist im besten Sinne emanzipiert. Sie ist autonom und hat eine entwickelte Persönlichkeit, sie liebt ihren Beruf, kann ihren Standpunkt vertreten. Many translated example sentences containing "starke Frau" – English-German dictionary and search engine for English translations.
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Juni 2016 - 1 BvR 87315, Willi Vorbeck Und Sein Team der durchschnittliche Gamer derzeit 32 Jahre alt ist und Mr Bean Cartoon Serie wir beide auch sehr gern zocken, hole du dir nochmals auf anderen Testportalen eine Meinung ein. - 1. Keine Hilfe annehmenWissenschaftler warnen: Jedem dritten Kind fehlt diese wichtige soziale Eigenschaft.
Dann aber wissen wir erst recht, dass wir unbesiegbar sind! Anstatt Dich also auf das Niveau hinab zu begeben, zeigst Du Klasse und Stil.
Hier stellen wir Dir daher vor, warum verzeihen können glücklich macht. Hier der Ausschnitt aus der Rede von Michelle Obama, in der sie diesen Satz zu einem ikonischen Zitat geformt hat:.
Keine Frau sollte ihr Licht unter den Scheffel stellen. Klug zu sein, macht eine Frau nicht unattraktiv, unsympathisch oder uninteressant.
Das Gegenteil ist der Fall. Das beste Beispiel ist die erfolgreiche Emma Watson selbst, die mit ihren Abschlüssen der Eliteuniversitäten Oxford und Brown mehr als nur eine erfolgreiche Karriere vorweisen kann.
Zweifle nicht an Dir selbst. Jetzt ist der richtige Moment, um Deine Erfolgslaufbahn zu starten. Du magst Dich vielleicht noch nicht bereit dazu fühlen, aber bald wirst Du bereit sein, und dann schon auf der Zielgeraden stehen.
Wir alle haben eine Geschichte, die auch von schweren Zeiten gezeichnet ist. Bei manchen mehr als bei anderen, doch eines haben wir alle gemeinsam: Wir haben diese schweren Zeiten überstanden.
Das beweist Stärke, Durchhaltevermögen und Mut. Gib jetzt nicht auf. Mach weiter. Ich verspreche, Du wirst es nicht bereuen. Weitere zehn Zitate, die Dich aufbauen und Dir Mut zusprechen, haben wir hier für Dich vorbereitet.
Frauen sind keine Opfer. In einer Gesellschaft, die seit jeher für Frauenrechte kämpft, ist das ein wichtiger Satz. Wir sind stark.
Wir sind intelligent. Wir sind in der Lage für unsere Rechte einzutreten. Wir brauchen kein Mitleid. Du redest Dich selbst oft schlecht.
Denn wie Ghandi schon sagte, werden aus unseren Gedanken Handlungen. Denke positiv über Dich selbst. Und sprich positiv über Dich selbst.
It is a very strange feeling, it feels almost unreal. A dream came true and I am still fascinated that it actually happened. So far I am pretty happy here.
With the US so divided, and both sides being so convinced that they are "the good ones", I thought a lot about blind spots.
And I have been thinking more than once: why on earth don't they see what I see? But no worries, I am not going to write about politics here.
I am more interested in what I can learn for my own life and my own relationship. Just as we have visual blind spots when looking at the road through our car mirrors, we also have psychological blind spots - aspects of our personalities that are hidden from our view.
These might be annoying habits like interrupting or bragging, or they might be deeper fears or desires that are too threatening to acknowledge.
Although it's generally not pleasant to confront these aspects of ourselves, doing so can be very useful when it comes to personal growth, and when it comes to improving our relationships with others - there is undoubtedly something we do that, unbeknownst to us, drives our significant others, roommates, or coworkers a little crazy.
So how do you know what your blind spots are? I am not working much at the moment, but I am trying to grow as a person.
I spend hours each day contemplating and thinking about my life so far, about my past, my failures and successes and where I wanna go from here.
Since you are all here for the kink, I wanna focus on the kink aspects. I am a bit at loss when it comes to this thing we do. I am not sure what I am doing or what I am doing wrong, but there is no kink in my life anymore.
At all. And the strange thing is: this has happened to me before and I have not figured out why. I am living a vanilla life, despite having strong dominant needs and cravings.
I literally had hundreds of submissive men courting me over the years, I know since I am a teenager that vanilla sex does not interest me at all, and all porn I ever got turned on on?
The questions I am cogitating about are: why don't I get what I am craving? I am the master of my life.
I am creating everything that happens in my life. And when I am having no kink in my life, despite blogging for 10 years about how important the kink is for me and how much it turns me on and how much I enjoy it, there needs to be something going on within me that is preventing me from getting what I want.
There needs to be an aspect or elements that I am not seeing. I need to have a blindspot that I am not aware of. Years ago I had a wonderful conversation with wdspoon and if I recall correctly he told me that he always found women who matched his needs.
That was very interesting to me, because up until then I had heard many many men complaining about how hard it is to find a dominant woman.
I never forgot that conversation because I realized that it is possible to get own needs met, despite how hard it seems and how unfavorable the statistic seems.
So why am I shooting myself in the foot when it comes to getting my sexual needs fulfilled? One place that blind spots can be found is in strong reactions.
An unusually strong negative or positive reaction or stance may suggest engagement in a process Freud called reaction formation.
Reaction formation involves unconsciously transforming an unacceptable or undesirable impulse into its opposite. For example, according to this view, former New York governor Elliot Spitzer's efforts to crack down on prostitution when in office may have been a direct reaction to his own desire for and involvement with prostitutes.
I have seen the same reaction formation in many Christians. Ted Haggard for instance comes to mind. But recation formation is a possibility, of course.
Maybe I am secretly submissive and dont wanna live these aspects? My mom was crying over men Hence my nickname: the strong woman.
In one study Morokoff, , female participants high in sexual guilt deemed erotic imagery to be unacceptable and reported low arousal in response to it.
Physiological measures revealed, however, that these same participants actually showed the highest levels of arousal. Harsh judgments of others' behavior may reveal a personal insecurity - for example, that highly ambitious co-worker may especially irritate you because of your own unexpressed ambitions.
Blind spots in these cases need not be objectively negative traits, just traits that are experienced as personally shameful or unacceptable.
I think it is fair to say that I am actually a very strong and courageous person. And I do know that I can be very dominant in real life.
Just ask my sister, lol, she will tell you what a bitch I am and how dominant I am. But at the same time I am super insecure about myself.
I don't value myself enough. I am my own very harsh critic. I don't give myself much credit for what I have achieved in life.
I don't think I am worthy to be pampered. I am always focused on fulfilling other people's needs. Putting myself and my needs first in a relationship doesn't come easy to me.
My shrink says that is a behavior that I learned when I was very very young and therefore it is quite difficult to change.
I am the most understanding person you can think of. I understand pretty much everything when it comes to human behavior. There is not much that can scare me away from a human being.
I am a healer and I am proud of it. Healing people is easy for me. You can wake me up in the middle of the night, tell me that you are sad, or unhappy, or depressed, and I will be able to come up with true reasons why I think you are amazing.
And I will truly think that you are amazing. Supporting people in need is something I have been doing all my life. And my theory is: as far as the kink is concerned, in the beginning of a relationship, when all is new, I am fully and completely focused on the man.
I wanna know as much as I can. And in the beginning, generally speaking, the men that enter my life are more than happy to give me what I want.
They feel seen and cherished and special. And they are all that to me. I think that is why it is very easy for the men to submit to me during that phase.
And I love every moment of it. I really do. It makes me feel amazing, vibrant, alive and happy.
And turned on, of course, lol. I think: "bingo. But then comes a point when all of a sudden the men start to withdraw again. We are still in a relationship, we still get along very well, we still think the other person is wonderful, but the men -for me completely out of the blue- stop submitting to me.
If I ask in a playful way: "hey, come on, let's do stuff And I am sure as hell not gonna beg a man to pretty please let me dominate him.
There has never been any explanation, any talk , any conversation I have no idea what the men were thinking, really no fucking clue.
My best guess is: I came emotionally too close. I saw facets of them that they usually hide. I scared them away. I guess what I asked for was too much.
Because in all honesty: The thing that turns me on the most is domestic discipline. I think the moment the guy says to me: "I am gonna have that 3rd beer anyway.
I feel like: "Fuck, I have been so nice to you, why cant you just fucking give me what makes me happy and what I need? My problem is: In these situations I still think he is awesome, I still love him like crazy, I still think he is wonderful, but I also secretly start to grow anger inside.
I am getting angry because I have no way to fulfill my own needs. I can not just non-consensually dominate a man. That's illegal and furthermore not how I roll.
I need his submission freely given by him, and not non-consensually taken by me. In a way, it feels like betrayal.
I have invested so much in the man, and in return he does not give me what I crave the most: his submission.
And to make it hurt even more, he is giving it to me for a while, only to then withhold it from me.
I can tell you; That sucks big time. I think I made one big mistake in the past: I more or less assumed that the submissive men I had contact with where strong and self confident enough to submit to me.
But in hindsight I think the men only were strong enough to open up to me and let me get as far as I came because I am actually great at opening people up emotionally.
I think the men that I met were generally super private and guarded and only allowed me to dominate them for a while because I really am good at making people feel safe.
I can be the most non threatening motherlike person you can think of. But: If the former submissive guy wants the vanilla version of a relationship with me , I expect him to take as good care of my needs as I took care of his when I was in the dominant position.
And they rarely do. In my experience I am suddenly stuck in a vanilla relationship where the guy still expects me to bend over backwards for him, without him giving me the gift of his submission.
And that is a very unpleasant situation for me to be in. After hearing so many stories from submissive guys and reading so many stories of guys who dream of having a dominant girlfriend, it was pretty shocking to realize how few "submissive" men actually are wiling to put in the effort to give me what turns me on.
Just as extreme negative reactions to a trait in others might suggest the presence of that trait in oneself, extremely positive attitudes or behaviors may suggest a lack, or a feared lack, of a desired trait.
Research shows that people who want to appear non-prejudiced may go to great lengths to demonstrate their generosity and positive attitudes towards a stigmatized group, especially when their sense of themselves as a non-prejudiced person is threatened.
Other kinds of overly positive or rigid attitudes may also suggest underlying negativity, ambivalence, or doubt. I really dont know where I stand.
And maybe I am asking for too much. Who knows? As you can see, I dont have many answers, but still many questions I have been working behind the scenes and was able to resolve all problems.
I was granted the visa and I already am in the USA now. Thank you very much to all of you who have reached out to me and supported me emotionally and legally.
By not hiring an immigration lawyer for the whole process but doing it myself I saved thousands of bucks but got grey hair :- The following saying came to my mind more than once, lol: "a man who is his own lawyer has a fool for a client".
But anyway, I made it happen. It feels very strange to finally live here. I have been in the US many many times over the last 20 years or so, but actually living 24 7 forever in America with my American husband still feels very unreal.
The goodbye from Germany and my German family was harder than expected. I am glad that part is over. My whole life is a white canvas now and I am not sure yet what I am gonna paint on it, figuratively speaking.
Very exciting and also pretty scary. It has always been tricky for me to write this blog while being in a relationship.
For some reason my partners have always felt very unhappy with me writing about the kink and our sex life. In a way it is impossible for me to write about my kinky life and not about my partners, because it is so much linked together.
In the very few cases when I do just play, it is online only. The interactions that make me the happiest and that give me content for my blog are the interactions with my partner.
He is the one that I am focused on. In a way I do understand that it can feel scary to know that I am blogging.
I was writing my blog already when I met him. He knew about my blog right from the beginning. He knew that I am writing about my love life. And he knew I write about us.
I was so hurt about his position, within 5 min of having heard his reproach I deleted all posts that I wrote since knowing him.
Accusing me of violating his consent is a huge accusation. I dont even wanna be near it. If you should have wondered why so many of my older post disappeared I do understand that a lot of submissive guys have a lot of fear of being "outed" as submissives.
I would never out anybody. Plus: I really think there is nothing to "out" anyway. You like getting your ass spanked? So what?
Enjoy it. So do I. I am in the scene for years now. And my conclusion is: there is really NOTHING we should be ashamed of. Nothing at all. Nevertheless I dont talk with the vanilla world about anything we do.
I am not on a mission to make this thing we do mainstream. Far from it. A few days ago I received a personal email from a reader of this blog regarding my visa status.
His email was super sweet and warm, and there were no strings attached at all. I spoke with my shrink about this email, I had my phone with me and read her some of the text he had written.
My shrink is female, super cool and open minded. When she heard the message she was deeply impressed and thrilled by the message.
It is fair to say that some of the smartest brains of the USA are reading my blog. I do not know. I just know they do We dont need to explain much to each other.
We dont need to defend our cravings and our lust. It is pretty much impossible to just "stumble" about my blog.
You need to be "in the scene" to find me. A very good but vanilla friend who is going through a divorce right now asked me recently: "Hey, do you know what felife is?
And a few minutes later I received an email with his fetlife name. He wrote: "Nothing human is alien to me.
We live our relationship pretty openly". I looked him up on fetlife and saw that his new girlfriend is in the scene for years, well established and with lots of friends there, while he is brand new.
And he outed her to me. I think no person who did what he did deserves to be called "master". And honestly, I thought: man what an asshole he is.
You dont throw your sex life on people. This would have taken guts indeed. So to all the submissive men out there who are reading this: you guys rock!
He is one of the good guys too. It is with deep sadness that I am writing this post. I do feel a need to inform you guys first, before I even tell it to my real life friends and acquaintances.
It feels safer to tell it to you first, because you all have been so supportive to me over the years. I feel deeply humiliated, shameful, and hurt.
My life is pretty much shattered and I have no idea how I managed myself to bring me in that crazy situation that I find myself suddenly in.
As you all know, I am German. But for some reason I have always been attracted to american men and the USA.
I cant explain what pushes me into that direction, I just know I feel that internal push all my life.
When Gregory came into my life, a big dream came true. I finally had my american man who loves me and cares for me and is happy to commit to me.
We dated for 2 years, got married and decided to start the process to live together for good. Gregory has strong ties to the USA, he cant just move to Germany, and I was more than willing to move to the USA and to him.
We started the legal proceedings for my big move almost 2 years ago. It was an exciting , emotional and very expensive "journey".
Never in my life had I expected that my decision to move to the USA would have such a strong impact on my German family of origin.
They pretty much all freaked out and were angry with me for - I quote- FORSAKING them. My decision to move to the USA had a huge impact on their financial and personal life too, and it took us all months to emotionally deal with it.
Never in my life have I felt so alone. We argued all the time. It felt like my German family blamed me for choosing Gregory over them.
Gregory asked me all the time: when are you finally moving to me? Give us a specific date when you are leaving the German house.
And I told to all of them: "I cant give you a specific date. Me moving to the USA without a working permit does not make any sense. I need to be able to make my own money in the USA.
I cant just live off of Gregory for the rest of my life. Things went on for months and months, and the pressure I felt under got stronger and stronger.
And Covid made things more complicated and even harder. Gregory missed me in the USA and my German family wanted solutions for German financial and emotional questions, And I could not satisfy neither Gregory nor the Germans,.
Slowly but surely I accepted less cases, got rid of unnecessary stuff and sorted things out, to eventually move. There were hundred of legal questions.
Let me assure you, it is not an easy thing to have a running law firm and intending to move away. But I somehow managed. And found solutions for everything.
I was determined to make it happen. And I made it happen. A few weeks ago I had my interview at the general consulate in Frankfurt. It went well.
He was all like: "Congratulations. Welcome to the USA. I forwarded the 2 missing papers to the consulate, and started selling all my private belongings.
I gave away stuff, sold stuff, threw away stuff and ended up with pretty much 2 suitcases full of items that I would take with me to Gregory in my new life.
Nothing else. I even managed, with the help of a reader of this blog, to make a big dream come true by getting a business class ticket for my one way flight to the USA.
My motto was: "Flying business class into my new life". A few days ago the consulate asked for one more paper, which I sent to them immediately.
I was expecting to receive my passport with the visa within this week. I was saying good bye to friends, colleagues and acquaintances, my office is empty, my room is empty, everything was ready for the big move.
And yesterday, without any warning and without any explanation I was noticed that my visa has been refused. I have no idea why. No reason was given.
My brain is still asking me: Is this really happening? Is this really true? I am here in Germany now with just a few clients left, no belongings, no office rooms, and no idea how to proceed.
I dont even know where I am gonna stay in the future. My office rooms are about to be rented out, my sister has canceled her rental apartment and is about to move in my room, my clients and colleagues think I will be living in the USA soon and instead I am here in Germany without any job, any plan or any hope.
And who knows what disadvantages it will bring on the border, if the border agents see that my immigrant visa has been refused.
I have no idea what the legal possibilities are to "fight" the decision to refuse the visa, but I guess there there wont be a quick fix.
In sum: I am devastated. I am so shocked, I am not even crying anymore. I told her about the German guy, a very good soccer player, who came to see me in my office and who had to do push ups right next to my desk.
I was sitting on my desk, working on legal papers, while he had to do endless push ups for me. After a while, when he was completely exhausted, I allowed him to get up and to stand in the office corner.
I later made some phone calls while he had to stand motionless in the corner. He was also very much into writing lines. He loved and hated it at the very same time.
One day he was sitting on a table in my office, writing punishment lines for me, when my secretary unexpectedly entered the room.
He was trying so frantically to hide the lines, and his face got all red, I had difficulties not to laugh out loud I told her about the danish slave who asked me to inflict pain on him, It was a long distance thing, and I could not actually spank him or touch him.
He ended up kneeling on rice for me and it was just wonderful. For both him and for me. I told her about the md from the States who is highly successful in a very demanding job.
He has written lines for me and served me so dedicatedly that just thinking at him makes me happy. And in telling her all these stories I realized once again what a wonderful thing my blog is.
This blog has literally opened a whole new world to me. The blog and the people I met through this blog give me hope in times of trouble and give me faith in humanity in general.
It is sometimes said that the internet is a dark place. But my experience is the opposite. This blog and the people I met through this blog have brought nothing but joy and color in my life.
I have met so many wonderful men, I couldnt have imagined how important that blog would become for me. The wonderful thing with my little blog is that people can be who they are.
I wanna know what they feel, crave and what they think. I wanna know what drives them and what scares them. I learned that making myself vulnerable allows people to make themselves vulnerable around me.
And that is a wonderful thing. This blog here allows me to show my vulnerability. And my courage to do so has never been disappointed.
I feel very blessed to have such a safe and almost holy place to go to. Thank you to all of you who are with me here.
I appreciate you being here with me very much. Wednesday, December 30, my father. His wife was a prostitute and working for him.
He always denied the rape. And I believed him. It came to a trial. I was completely uninteresting to him again. Posted by lawyer at PM 8 comments:.
Friday, November 20, my father, my ex boyfriend and my fears. So I thought: Sigh, ok, let's look at my father. To be continued. Posted by lawyer at AM 6 comments:.
Sunday, November 15, America, subs and me. I love the Americans, I really do. And always have. I have rarely met an American abroad that I did not like.
I like that they are so easy to get in a conversation with, I like that they are so laid back. I grew up in a city where the US Army had a base.
I love the language. I started learning English in 7th grade and have never ceased to learn and love that language. In school and later in life I also learned Latin, French, Spanish, Swedish, even some Portuguese, but the only language that really was of interest to me was English.
When I was in France a year ago, I could hardly speak a word French anymore, even though I used to be fluent in it. English has taken over in my brain :- I remember, during the time when I dated the German guy, one evening we were watching YouTube together, and we were watching an English show.
He suddenly said to me: "can we switch to something German , please". And I only thought: "What? I cannot watch only German tv and shows for the rest of my life.
That's impossible". It was at exactly that moment that I realized: "he's not the one for me. It was just FUN talking with the Americans and they always tipped exorbitantly.
It triggers feel good feelings in me. And it allows me to be more open and fearless and to see more of my own worth.
I received the following comment recently: I think your husband was unfortunately right due to the way society is. Again, I don't know what the view of bdsm is in Germany but in the US I think he would be looked down on.
I know I would be and its why I am in the closet. I don't post face pictures of myself even on vanilla dating sites making it hard to meet women.
Someone told me bdsm in Europe is looked on like a hobby or interest for the most part.Many translated example sentences containing "starke Frau" – English-German dictionary and search engine for English translations. Natürlich trifft es eine starke Frau, wenn sie eine schwere Zeit durchmachen muss. Sie hat aber so ihre Strategien entwickelt, um sich selbst Mut zu machen. Hier ist ein Loblied an die facettenreiche Weiblichkeit für starke Frauen. Diesen hat nämlich jeder Mensch, ob Frau oder Mann, in einer bestimmten. Davon, was eine starke Frau ausmacht, hat wohl jede und jeder eine ganz eigene Vorstellung. Für das Wirtschaftsmagazin Forbes, das alljährlich eine Liste der.